Hooking Up

          You know what I hate? When random guys on Faceboook send you a friend request and then start chatting you for no reason. This has happened to me a few time and it never ceasing to creep me out.
           I know what you're going to say. "You shouldn't friend them if you don't know them." And I usually don't, except when we have like 132 mutual friends.
         So right now, as I'm typing this, this kid named Anthony is talking to me, and he is just...I don't even know. Literally ten seconds after I accept his friend request he chats me "yo" and I'm like "Do I know you?" And he says, "No, but we can get to know each other." And immediately I'm thinking, this guy wants to get with me or something. So we start having this really boring conversation; me asking how old he is (a grade younger than me), him asking how tall I am (5'4), what sports I play, what music I like, really generic stuff like that.
          All of a sudden he goes, "Amira, do you think I'm a nice guy?" Now, my Facebook name clearly says "Amera" at the top, right above the little chat box. Are you not even going to take the time to pretend you're interested in anything besides how horny you are? Really? So, me being the bluntly honest girl that I am, answers, "Well, I don't really know you and you spelled my name wrong, so I can't really answer that."
          "Let me try again, do you think I'm hot?"
          No. "Sure."
          "Do you have a cell?"
          "Yeah..." Awesome, now he's gonna ask for my number.
          "Do you want my number?" he asks.
          "No...I think I'm good."

          Hasn't replied since, and I'd bet my right hand he isn't going to. Has this ever happened to you? Like, whatever happened to meeting a person and actually talking and becoming friends instead of just hooking up then never talking again? I'm not the type of girl to kiss someone I don't actually like, I've only kissed two guys in my whole life. But I hear stories all the time from people on the internet, or on my soccer team, or my friend's friends hooking up with random guys at the mall or at the beach.          

        I have no problem with people who do this, I get why you would. But, it's making it really hard to rind respectable people nowadays. Girls are so easy and guys are such players. And girls are always  complaining about how they just want a boyfriend who likes them for more than sex. Well then don't wear skimpy clothing and whorish makeup! Like, what is that? Guys treat you like crap because you let them. You can't go to third base on the first date and be amazed when he keeps asking for more.

        I feel like it's a two way street, too. There probably are good guy out there, but girls always go for the douche bags. I don't know why that happens, but I've seen my best friend get hurt more times than I can count and I just don't understand. Oh, how I love to rant.